tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2385805816075737619.post1930152575150574281..comments2023-10-17T18:48:33.185+03:00Comments on Poplove Designs: That size 0 thing: Part 2 - The male perspectivePopLove Designshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08523477816626359798noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2385805816075737619.post-62345810727530662062012-11-08T14:19:46.034+02:002012-11-08T14:19:46.034+02:00I loved how you prefer a healthy look over the bon...I loved how you prefer a healthy look over the bonny! I used to be bonny and I was made fun of til I was 15. Then, because of ballet, I started building up leg and butt muscles... As we know, metabolism decreases as we age, so last year, I was actually fat! And I measure this stuff with body fat percentage, so I wasn't crazy... I decided to change my lifestyle: eat better, ballet and yoga plus walking everywhere I can. As it turns out, I found out that I had grown up (!) at the age of 20, making me feel much fatter than I really was. Today, I didn't lose weight, but lost fat and gained muscle! It takes time to adjust when you've been a stick figure all your life and suddenly, you're "hot" (to guys) and curvy... I'm not entirely happy yet, but I'll get there. I guess wee just have to understand our own body structures and find our beauty. Jackie Melohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16896942034491787150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2385805816075737619.post-1661004008176058742011-02-17T00:59:36.145+02:002011-02-17T00:59:36.145+02:00I hope I was clear in the above post that I don...I hope I was clear in the above post that I don't idealize SKINNY bony women.<br /><br />I think that the appearance of an overly skinny woman may be striking or shocking. It definitely is attention grabbing. However, I don't find it beautiful or attractive in any way.<br /><br />Skinny isn't any healthier than fat. Sadly women nowadays think that there are only two options available to them: to eat or not to eat. It is truly a shame that the healthiest and sexiest option of eating well and exercising is not taken into account at all.<br /><br />Hopefully this sickly-skinny "trend" will pass and maybe we will get an 80's comeback in the form of the female figure? Here's hoping!PopLove Designshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08523477816626359798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2385805816075737619.post-89533300059253790332011-02-15T21:46:08.789+02:002011-02-15T21:46:08.789+02:00I have known plenty of these kinds of men who idea...I have known plenty of these kinds of men who idealize SKINNY boney women.<br /><br />Recently my boyfriend had told me he has always been attracted to the "anorexic look" which I find so messed up and has given me a complex. Had I known sooner ~ I would have broken up with him for this. (Even though I am size 0 - 2 ~ I just don't want the complex, I think I have a great body and got over my catwalk model comparisons in high school.)<br /><br />I just don't understand the attraction ~ anorexia is a disease. They are miserable, phychotic, and unhealthy and it 'aint cute!! I had a friend hospitalized for anorexia in high school, she was tube fed for a month, there is the epitome of beauty is pain. Only she looked like absolute s@&#@.<br /><br />So what is so attractive about anorexic women to my boyfriend? He told me ~ Skinny is always healthier than fat and very skinny people are gentically superior because they don't gain weight when they eat. So when he gets serious ~ he looks for signs like protruding ribs and hip bones. <br /><br />I guess now I could be glad I have protruding ribs naturally? It's never something I looked at and went "Wow I have such a hot rib cage". Ribs are freaky.Pryncezahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00625885290359245134noreply@blogger.com